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Chazaq · Chazaq Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 382 Status: User

Note: I want to keep this topic as mature as possible.

What are your feelings about it? How does it influence your sexual relationships? Do you regularly use it?

Rocky Sullivan · Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 12:35 pm Post subject:

never, I'm a woman.

edit: alright sometimes, but it's not a thing really. I have no problem with it unless it's really degrading and everyone can tell it is.
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Sexy_Sakura · Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 4:55 pm Post subject:

I never look at porn. It makes me really uncomfortable. Not at all a turn on.

And if I ever dated someone that used porn on a regular basis we wouldn't be dating anymore.
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Otogi-san · gleep glorp Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 5077 Status: User

As a guy I am not against porn. However I am agaisnt the really weird fetish stuff, like choking and scat and that kinda shit. Some people are really fucking weird.

possums · Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 7:18 pm Post subject:

I am mostly the same as Danyo. There's a little more to that than that for me though.

Pornography has affected me a lot as a person. I would definitely say it has raised my standards for women, perhaps negatively, although to be honest that was a long time coming. My mother and father got into a long fight over him viewing porn, and well, that got them to where they are which I'd rather not discuss just yet. My girlfriend doesn't have a problem with porn, and to be honest she kind of looks like a pornstar from a certain angle so I'm pretty much set in that respect.

Uh. Yeah, really gross fetishes are disgusting, but hopefully we've all got our little ones that we're not afraid to share.

I'll go when Bonnie goes.
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Metal Matt · Gender: Joined: 25 Mar 2006 Posts: 374 Status: User

Meh, I dunno. Its pretty cool when your girl likes to fool around with you to/with it. Won't go into any further detail.

Mikes! · Gender: Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 1843 Status: Moderator

I don't think there's any way for someone to say that pornography is right or wrong; however some porn can be degrading or weird. And it's nice every now and then, but watching other people have sex isn't as good as the real thing. But I guess some festishes and fantasies are harder to realize than others, and sometimes it's the idea of a fantasy that's more arousing than actually doing it. Whatever floats your boat. Meh.

Its_The_Sneak!!! · Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 10:46 pm Post subject:

yeah, I'm gonna have to say that sex isn't really ... something to watch.

I mean, it's pretty gross.

I don't like porn.

Now, the naked ladies that aren't having sex, that stuff I don't mind.
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Der · Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 11:40 pm Post subject:

Terri · Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 11:47 pm Post subject:

dodger · Gender: Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 2136 Status: User

In my personal opinion, if a guy wants to enjoy pornography (plain old vanilla, non-fetish porn... more extreme stuff is a whole other can of worms), I think that should be fine as long as it does not hamper the couple's sex life. If it is somehow interfering with both of them satisfying their need for intimacy, that's a problem. Otherwise, it should not be a problem.

If a woman can't stand that her boyfriend/husband watches porn, and it's not because she is not being fulfilled sexually, there are only a couple reasons for her hang-up:
1. She could be opposed to pornography morally, which is sort of shaky ground. If this is the case, she is within her rights not to date someone who does not share the same viewpoints, and no one could fault her for moving on to someone else.

2. She could be opposed to pornography because it makes her feel inferior. Everyone has their personal hang-ups and self-esteem problems, but it's wrong to project them onto someone else. If a girl's boyfriend watches porn, and she doesn't like it because it makes her feel like her boobs aren't big enough, it's unfair for her to take that out on him.

I will go on the record as a person who enjoys pornography, and as a person who has been in both of the above situations at one time or another. As far as pornography being "wrong" or offensive or immoral, I would submit that for further discussion.

And everyone has their own fetish, no matter how big or small it might be. You don't really get to choose what turns you on, so I'm a little curious why so many of you seem so grossed out by fetishes. Granted, scat porn isn't something that people want to see unless they're into it, but the same applies to all sexual imagery.

Ray · Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 4:36 am Post subject:

I applaud your maturity on the subject, Dodge.
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ZealousDemon · Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 5:07 am Post subject:

It's really difficult for me to get into this topic.

Porn goes beyond "watching", but going any further to really discuss the issue would be a bit too creepy and personal for my taste. =X

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Sexy_Sakura · Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 12:24 pm Post subject:

I wouldn't have a problem if my boyfriend watched porn occassionally - especially if we were seperated for a long period of time (i.e. a week or more). It's when it gets to the point of being a daily thing that bugs me.
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